Stating as progress has moved forward the principals have not changed as you now are aware, however you can live with knowing that your pride has set right and that your aim has reached goals desired. The rest however is up to them who you placed your interest in. You cannot make them drink the water! Even while it’s there.
Yes the choice has been made to move on as it’s the safe decision, but the purpose itself is because you are not tied to a past!
And as you made the decision to be happy why gamble with it? As now you are faced with your past, as what lessons were learned and at what expense? And now moving on to the key of your happiness!